CLOUDED MIND

I have heard a lot of people say "I learnt so much from my past relationship." This might be because of the idea that going through one or more relationship helps one grow. Most people even believe that it helps one understand who they are and what they want in a partner. "I learnt so much from my past relationship." is more misleading than we tend to realize. It is possible to grow somewhat due to previous relationships.I understand that if it is not meant to be then it is not meant to be. But regardless, we still need to learn how to fight for what we want until we are completely sure that it is not meant to be. This one attribute helps us understand who we are and what we want.

However, we need to be very careful about moving from one relationship to another with hopes that we learnt from our past relationship. Moving from relationship to relationship CLOUDS our mind. We become so CLOUDED that we can not wait to jump into the another relationship to apply everything that we felt we learnt.

After dating a few people, our mind becomes CLOUDED. Here is what I mean; we believe in the misconception that we grow from past relationships, therefore we go through relationships without putting in work. Because our minds are so clouded we fail at finding out the main reason why the previous relationship ended. Most importantly we are so clouded by the previous relationship that we ignore the fact that every person is different. As a result of the previous relationship we consciously or subconsciously base the events of the current relationship on the old. Therefore, setting the new relationship up to fail indirectly. In many cases while thinking that we learnt from past relationships all we truly do is just relive past relationships. Step out of you clouded mind and understand who you are based on your rules. Remember to put in work to have a lovely relationship and not to find out if who you are dating is the same as everyone. Stop setting up your relationship to fail and damaging your poor mind by jumping from one relationship to another. All relationships go through hell, but real relationships get through it, real relationships are not found by running when the grass is not green enough.

Coming This Weekend

This weekend A Resolute Mind presents some insight on the possible effect(s) of dating multiple partners.

- A Resolute Mind presents: Clouded Mind.

Insanity!

The idea of going through the same type of relationships based on the same rules, but expecting a different outcome. A lot of  us spend loads of time trying to make our relationship work out on the same rules that caused the previous one to fail. It is frustrating to lose someone that you care about and then look back in regret. However, it is easier to maintain a long lasting relationship if you learn to grow and adapt to your partner. Take a few minutes to reflect and possibly apply this idea to your relationship. By doing this you can begin to find out the mistakes in your relationship and if you truly appreciate the idea of a relationship then you  will work on those mistakes differently. 

What is the most common form of relationship insanity? LAZINESS! 
I have seen/ heard about too many relationships that fail because someone is just too lazy to  put in that work. Are you still wondering what I mean by laziness? Do not worry, I will elaborate. Too many times people back out of relationships because they are tired of putting in that work. Now, there are those cases where you can clearly tell that it is not working out. Do not forget to do your due diligence regardless.  

- Lazy people run from their relationship without due diligence
- Lazy people expect a relationship to be a bed of roses(there will always be bad days)

Nothing good comes easy. A relationship is not a walk in the park, but it is surely a lovely experience. We struggle to get what we want in life and like always we then have to work harder to keep it."Even though every relationship has its ups and downs, successful couples have learned how to manage the bumps and keep their love life going"

Insanity is when we forget that the purpose of a relationship is for two completely different people to come together as one and battle to understand + cherish one another. A lot of relationships do not work  because people keep trying the same techniques over and over again with hopes of maintaining a long lasting relationship. Advise? Just stop it!!

Understand your partner, switch things around, know them for them and when that time comes, when you are tested; fight for your relationship just do it differently.
Relationship: The way in which two or more people are connected.

THAT WELCOME SPEECH

Hello people of the world. Welcome to my supposed to be very interesting blog. So I find that I always have something to say about things that happen around me and the world. So every now and then I will come on here and post my honest opinion about issues or hot topics. I  have some good insight on relationships so just feel free to ask me questions. This blog is a platform to reach out to the world just to share my thoughts. Remember GOOD OR BAD your opinion is yours. So join the conversation friends. Remember freedom is from within.